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Friday
Jul302010

Turn a Full Close into an LTR

For girls you've already f-closed there are a few things you can do.

Firstly, set up a time-bridge before you go for the f-close, or at least set up a tentative time-bridge.

Secondly, follow the "3 in 10" rule. This means that once you've f-closed a girl, fuck her 2 more times within 10 days with at least 1 day in-between. So, you f-close her on Saturday night, make sure you close her two more times by the following Monday. This is well field tested...

Thirdly, be sure to give them validation. Initially, women are in the moment and enjoying the ride while you sweep them off their feet, however after the f-close they begin to think, "What does this mean, where is this relationship going?" etc. As guys we tend to assume they they know we like them, but the reality is that once you've f-closed them, they feel like they've played their last card.

So, you have to continue to qualify them, especially SOIs, and force framing so they feel that even though they gave it up to you, you still value them for them. Also, continue to use future projection to weave the two of you into a life together in the future.

Don't worry about falling into the boyfriend/girlfriend frame, because you've already framed that you date multiple women AND you won't be showing needy behavior AND will stay away from developing patterns and routines with her.

When I first started implimenting the 3 in 10 I noticed that some girls would blow out after the 2nd time, or sometimes after the first.  I also realized that sometimes because of my travel schedule I was unable to complete the 3 in 10 and this lead me to realize that it is an indicator rather than a technique to make the LTR happen.

So going for it will give you a good indication where things stand, but it's not necessary to make sure that your successful close turns into a continuing thing.

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