Phase Shifting in Qualification: Quick Tip For Meeting Women #3

During qualification you should be phase-shifting and gradually increase the intensity of the phase-shift as she qualifies herself more and more.

Part of helping bring her into being more phase-shifted along with you is that you include EMOTIONAL elements into the qualification. Ask her if she's adventurous. When she gives an example of a time she was, bring out something you want the two of you two do together...

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KISS! Gene Simmons-Alpha Male

Whether you are or are not a fan of the band KISS and it's lead singer Gene Simmons, it's worth listening to this interview he did on NPR.  I don't know much about him, but my partner, Kid44 is a big fan of his stuff.

And when I say stuff, I mean his frames and thinking.  He does a good job of flipping things on the interviewer, staying strong in his convictions(ie holding his frame) and being totally unreactive.

http://www.behindthekit.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/GeneSimmons_TerryGross.mp3