Turn a Full Close into an LTR

For girls you've already f-closed there are a few things you can do.

Firstly, set up a time-bridge before you go for the f-close, or at least set up a tentative time-bridge.

Secondly, follow the "3 in 10" rule. This means that once you've f-closed a girl, fuck her 2 more times within 10 days with at least 1 day in-between. So, you f-close her on Saturday night, make sure you close her two more times by the following Monday. This is well field tested...

Thirdly, be sure to give them validation. Initially, women are in the moment and enjoying the ride while you sweep them off their feet, however after the f-close they begin to think, "What does this mean, where is this relationship going?" etc. As guys we tend to assume they they know we like them, but the reality is that once you've f-closed them, they feel like they've played their last card.

So, you have to continue to qualify them, especially SOIs, and force framing so they feel that even though they gave it up to you, you still value them for them. Also, continue to use future projection to weave the two of you into a life together in the future.

Don't worry about falling into the boyfriend/girlfriend frame, because you've already framed that you date multiple women AND you won't be showing needy behavior AND will stay away from developing patterns and routines with her.

When I first started implimenting the 3 in 10 I noticed that some girls would blow out after the 2nd time, or sometimes after the first.  I also realized that sometimes because of my travel schedule I was unable to complete the 3 in 10 and this lead me to realize that it is an indicator rather than a technique to make the LTR happen.

So going for it will give you a good indication where things stand, but it's not necessary to make sure that your successful close turns into a continuing thing.

Quick Tip for Meeting Women #2: Execute Now, Strategize Later

It is important to understand that you don't have to run perfect game to have the kind of life with women you want.

The goal isn't to run perfect game; the goal is to build the kinds of relationships you want with women.

So while it is true you want to focus on building the skill set as an over-all frame, when you're in the sarge, be focused on the interaction itself and on what you can do to make it better rather than on how well or how poorly your running your game.

Generally speaking you should be evaluating your game AFTER the night is over, not during which is one good reason to be in set as much as possible.

It keeps you out of your head and gives you lots of time to remember the things you should be doing to progress the sarge over the course of a night.

KISS! Gene Simmons-Alpha Male

Whether you are or are not a fan of the band KISS and it's lead singer Gene Simmons, it's worth listening to this interview he did on NPR.  I don't know much about him, but my partner, Kid44 is a big fan of his stuff.

And when I say stuff, I mean his frames and thinking.  He does a good job of flipping things on the interviewer, staying strong in his convictions(ie holding his frame) and being totally unreactive.

http://www.behindthekit.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/GeneSimmons_TerryGross.mp3