The Best Place to PickUp in Asia?

I travel in Asia...A LOT.  In the past 12 months, I've been to Thailand, Japan, Korea, China, Taiwan, Cambodia, Indonesia, and Malaysia(most of them multiple times).

And while there are beautiful women everywhere I think Japan stands out as the best place for pickup.

And it's all demographics:

• China has 1.3 BILLION people, that's 1,300 million people
• Japan has 130 million
• Thailand has about 70 million
• Indonesia, the most populous SE Asian country has 238 million
• Singapore has only 5 million

Based off these raw numbers, you'd think that China would be your best place to pickup.  However most foreign guys are reallly only interested in women of a certain socio-economic background--educated, middle class women and up.  

(Not all guys though...In Thailand, I have a friend who was explaining to his girlfriend that when you're looking at a world map, the edge of one side of the map leads to the edge of the OPPOSITE side of the map!  Another friend, used to quiz girls on their times tables!)

I read one statistic that says that of China's 1,300 million, only 60 million are middle class!

Contrast that with Japan where the middle class makes up 125 million.  Plus with China's one child policy and their preference for male children, the percentage of women in that 60 million is looking not so good.

Additionally, the large population means that there are more subcultures(the homogeneity of Singapore stands out here, *yawn*).

And while Indonesia has almost as many people as the US, the income per person there is lower than China...and it's muslim, which REALLY doesn't help you with getting chicks into bed.

I think this is why Japanese girls are so renowned all over the world.  That and their huge porn industry!

Leading Women - The Pitfalls and Two Maxims That Will Help You Avoid Them

Skillful leading is one of those often overlooked things that you must learn if you want to be successful with women. In Asia, it is up to you as a man to take responsibility for how interactions with women go. Whether rightly or wrongly as a man, it is your job to "sweep" a woman off of her feet and create that fantasy that she's always wanted.

Leading in relationships is about setting the scene, and planning out the progression of dates, and most importantly pulling the trigger at the right time so that the interactions move forward. If you can lead well, then you will be able to create the kind of dating life you've always wanted. It's a lot like salsa dancing. If a woman has very little skills but is with a man who leads well, she will look like she's an amazing dancer and on the same token if you put a woman who is an amazing dancer with a guy who leads poorly it will be a total disaster.

Are some women poor followers? Yes, many. But as long as you're not leading well, you can't know whose fault your bad relationship really is.

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