Want to Get Better With Women? There AreTwo Simple Ways to Put the Odds in Your Favor

There is so much information out there about meeting women and dating.  There's complete stories for you to repeat, games you can play, concepts to master, etc.

BUT, it really comes down to two things, and everything about picking up and dating women is at essence about these two things.  When you know and understand what these two things are, you can improve your success rate much more easily than most guys can.

Most guys who are learning this stuff want to know EVERYTHING.  In fact you're probably reading this because you're a logical guy who wants to know how to get from point A to point D and doesn't want to step out the door until you have full color map with all the detours highlighted in yellow so that you'll be ready for any and every contingency.

Unfortunately, what that means is that you're still sitting at home rather than having a great time with the ladies.  Whatever your level of skill with women is now, you can have more success just based on simple math.

Here it is, the first thing you need to do to improve your success with women:

1) Increase the total number of interactions you have with women

What a relief, right?  Because what it means, is that whatever your level of skill is with women right now, there are some that you could have success with.  Trust me on this.

Even the lamest of the lame guys get laid occasionally.  So you have to get out there and meet more women.  If you do that and nothing else, you will have more success--more phone numbers, more dates, and more sex.  You can't not--it's simple math.

And now the second thing:

2) Increase the effectiveness of each interaction

I'm talking about increasing those percentages, so that instead of 100 interactions to get 1 number, you only need 50 to get 1, and then 20 to get 1.  I'm talking about improving so that instead of 50 phone numbers to get one date, you only need 30, or only 10.

And most deliciously of all, going from needing to go on dates with 30 women to have sex with 1, you can reduce that number to 10 or even 5. I bet that would make dating a lot more exciting for you, wouldn't it?

You need a two pronged attack. 

When my father was a kid, he used to tell my grandmother that he was worried about becoming perfect.  Her answer, "No danger".

Instead of worrying about being perfect, go out there and put those numbers in your favor.  Because you can have more success if you change nothing at all about yourself, and with even small improvements you can make that success come faster.

Quick Tips for Meeting Women #7: Club Game

In the boot camp you're doing approach, after approach, after approach. That has the specific purpose of developing the skills of opening and running a set.

However, that's usually not the ideal way to actually sarge a club. The ideal way, is to meet and mingle.

That means bouncing among sets, starting with the easiest opens, while keeping your eyes out for the one or two or three girls that you're really keen on.

In practice that means that you're running attraction with the girls, kinoing playfully, and just having fun and laughing. No isolation. Maybe a bit of qualification, but not enough for them to think that you're actually interested in them. You can start sexualizing early in this case(sexually qualifying her), since you're not actually interested which makes you fun and sexy.

Also, even though the girl isn't someone you'd want to be with seriously, she may be down to fuck you either that night or another time because she can tell from the way that you interact with her that you will deliver the goods.

The main thing is to eject from sets earlier rather than pushing them because you want to make sure you don't get blown out by any of the sets that you're really just using as warm-up and social proofing. Eject after BT Spikes, and then come back later while you're waiting it out.

Almost invariably, there will come a time in the night where it will be easy to open the sets you were targeting. It will be right there, begging to be opened(meaning that you'd be an idiot not to open in that situation).

Then that's when you unleash the full power of your game.

Flakey Girls - 3 Things You Can Do To Minimize the Damage

Last night I did a tele-seminar with a few guys in Shanghai.  They've been having trouble dealing with flakes and wanted to know what to do about it.

I totally understand.  Flakes are a way of life in cold approach.

For those of you who don't know, cold approach involved approaching women with no known connection to you.  Then there are various degrees of warm approach, like an introduction to a friend, or a house party, or if you're in the same class, or go to the same University(more on this in a future post).

In any case, cold approach is the most challenging because the annonymity means that:

• Women feel justified in being rude to you--after all you are a stranger

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