Phase Shifting in Qualification: Quick Tip For Meeting Women #3

During qualification you should be phase-shifting and gradually increase the intensity of the phase-shift as she qualifies herself more and more.

Part of helping bring her into being more phase-shifted along with you is that you include EMOTIONAL elements into the qualification. Ask her if she's adventurous. When she gives an example of a time she was, bring out something you want the two of you could do together.

She's qualified herself to do this activity with you by saying she's adventurous and giving you an example, so now you're free to construct this future-projection adventure fantasy. What makes it fantasy isn't that it's not something that will really happen, what makes it fantasy is that she bodily experiences it then with you by you talking about it in a way that she can emotionally connect to.

This is really the power behind speed seduction patterns. They put the woman in an emotional state by having her visualize things and imagine the emotions that go along with the experience. This kind of talk is what makes a guy romantic and what makes a girl get swept off her feet. This is actually how you transition between qualification and comfort, though until you've gotten to the point where you can say that she's WOW'ed you you go back and forth.

Once you can say to her, something like, "When I first met you, you seemed like you were just some stupid party girl, but now that I've gotten to know you, there are a lot of cool things about you," you can then move into hardcore comfort.

Bring out your hero story so she can feel she knows you deeply and understands you.

Up the kino, seed and set your time-bridges, bounce her to someplace where you can build more comfort and if possible bring her to a sexcalation location: Ferris wheel, karaoke booth, DVD room, your place or her place so that you can escalate to the f-close.